At the end of the two weeks, I was sad to have left my Thai lady, but, the doubt has just continued to grow in my mind. (I personally don’t think that that’s too much of a an age gap, but I know some who do.) I’m from Sydney, she’s from ‘wheretheheckaburi’. I just don’t know what to think about this Thai girl, she’s made me kinda crazy! ’ After a few weeks back at work, and getting on with hundrum life back home, of course the pull to return got stronger. She had medical bills to pay for (female problems, I didn’t ask). Her phone got stolen (I bought her a new one for 3000 B). She had cancer, she said, and she had to back to her village to see her, and take her money to pay for the doctor. So, I handed over a rather large sum of cash (I’m too embarrassed to reveal how much). Don’t rush into a relationship or marriage, and if something doesn’t feel ‘right’ trust your instincts.
I really want to get back to Phuket to see her again, and see if that spark was real. Needing money for this and that is a big red flag for me now, so as soon as I hear that I tend to think she’s just after one thing.
But, on my first trip I found out it was more of wishful thinking instead. It is part of the culture there that women take good care of their appearance and you'll definitely notice.
One thing I notice, women in Thailand are crazy about having fair skin. But more than that, I found it difficult to just walk up to women in shopping centers or on the street.
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Personally, I have nothing against them, but I just went my women the natural way.Most services also encourage members to add photos or videos to their profile.Once a profile has been created, members can view the profiles of other members of the service, using the visible profile information to decide whether or not to initiate contact.Most services offer digital messaging, while others provide additional services such as webcasts, online chat, telephone chat (VOIP), and message boards.Members can constrain their interactions to the online space, or they can arrange a date to meet in person.She’d lived there for 5 years, so she knew the place well, though her home town is in the country… I asked her why she was on an Internet dating site, and she told me a terrible story about how she had gone to school to learn the hotel trade, and had ended up working in a restaurant where she had been treated poorly, and hadn’t been paid. Especially when I asked her about her previous boyfriends. I wasn’t sure when she began putting pressure on me to move things along a bit faster. I’d like her to meet my mum and dad, and my sister… Only then will I pop the question and look at marriage visas and more permanent options.